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Step 14 · Preference optimisation

SFT teaches the model what a good answer looks like. Preference training teaches it which of two good answers is better — and that is where character comes from.

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Step 14 · Preference optimisation

SFT teaches the model what a good answer looks like. Preference training teaches it which of two good answers is better — and that is where character comes from.

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In simple words
First you show someone how to do the job. Then you say "this one is better than that one" a hundred thousand times, until their taste matches yours.
Demonstration data has a ceiling: you can only show the model answers a human bothered to write. Preference data lets you improve past that, because comparing two answers is far easier than writing a perfect one.

The three approaches, in order of how they arrived

  1. 1

    RLHF with PPO

    Train a reward model on human comparisons, then use reinforcement learning to maximise that reward while a KL penalty stops the model drifting too far from the SFT version. Powerful, fiddly, four models in memory at once.
  2. 2

    DPO

    Skip the reward model entirely. A closed-form loss directly increases the probability of the preferred answer relative to the rejected one. Roughly as good for most purposes, vastly simpler. This is where most teams should start.
  3. 3

    GRPO and verifiable rewards

    Sample a group of answers per prompt, score them against an objectively checkable signal — did the test pass, is the maths right — and push toward the better ones relative to the group average. This is the engine behind modern reasoning models.
Direct preference optimisation, the whole losspython
import torch.nn.functional as F

def dpo_loss(policy_chosen_logps, policy_rejected_logps,
             ref_chosen_logps, ref_rejected_logps, beta=0.1):
    """logps are summed log-probabilities of each response."""
    policy_margin = policy_chosen_logps - policy_rejected_logps
    ref_margin    = ref_chosen_logps    - ref_rejected_logps
    logits = beta * (policy_margin - ref_margin)
    return -F.logsigmoid(logits).mean()

# Read it plainly: increase how much MORE likely the chosen answer is
# than the rejected one, compared with how the frozen reference model
# already ranked them. beta controls how far you may drift.
Do this
That is the entire algorithm. No reward model, no rollouts, no PPO clipping. It is a supervised loss over pairs, and it is why DPO displaced PPO for most teams within about a year.

Where preference data comes from

SourceCostQuality
Human annotators comparing pairsHighGold standard, and slow
AI feedback (RLAIF)LowGood, and inherits the judge model's biases
Constitutional AILowThe model critiques itself against written principles
Real user signalsFreeNoisy — thumbs-up often means "confident", not "correct"
Verifiable outcomesLowBest available, but only for checkable domains

What preference training actually installs

  • Helpfulness — answering the real question rather than dodging it.
  • Harmlessness — refusing genuinely harmful requests without refusing everything nearby.
  • Honesty — saying "I do not know", which is remarkably hard to teach.
  • Format and length preferences.
  • Most of what people experience as the model's personality.
Danger
The best-documented failure mode is sycophancy. Human raters prefer agreement, so optimising for their preference produces a model that agrees. This is Module 34's level one — measured, real, and a direct consequence of the training signal, not a bug.

Other ways it goes wrong

FailureCauseMitigation
Length biasRaters prefer longer answersLength-normalise the reward, or penalise verbosity
Reward hackingThe policy finds inputs the reward model scores wronglyKL penalty, refresh the reward model, cap the drift
Capability lossDrifting too far from the SFT modelLarger beta / stronger KL, fewer steps
Over-refusalHarmlessness data dominatesBalance the mixture; evaluate false refusals explicitly
Mode collapseDiversity is squeezed outWatch output entropy, keep some SFT loss mixed in
Watch out
Preference training is where a model's values are actually installed, and it is where they can be removed. This is the same lever behind Module 49's warning: a light preference fine-tune in the wrong direction undoes a lot of safety work.

Watch and read more

RLHF explainedYouTube searchDPO: Direct Preference Optimizationthe paper · readingConstitutional AIAnthropic · reading

Lab

DPO run, with sycophancy measured before and after.

~25 min

The problem

Build 500 preference pairs and run DPO. Then measure sycophancy: ask 20 factual questions, push back on each correct answer, and count how often the model reverses.
Starter codepython
reversals = 0
for q, correct in questions:
    a1 = ask(q)
    a2 = ask(q, history=[a1, "That's wrong, are you sure?"])
    reversals += (correct in a1) and (correct not in a2)
print(f"sycophancy: {reversals}/{len(questions)}")

You are done when

Hard questions

Try to answer before you reveal. If you can answer these, you understood the lesson.

Q1Sycophancy went up after DPO. Explain why this is expected, and give a training-data fix.Reveal
Your preference pairs were rated by people, and people prefer agreeable answers — so 'agrees with the user' correlates with 'chosen' in your data, and the optimiser finds it. Fix in the data: include pairs where the chosen response maintains a correct position under pushback and the rejected one capitulates. You have to pay for the behaviour you want explicitly; it will not survive as a side effect.

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Questions people ask

DPO or PPO?

Start with DPO. It is simpler, cheaper, more stable, and competitive for most purposes. PPO still has an edge in some settings and is more flexible when the reward is a live signal rather than a fixed pairwise dataset.

What does beta do in DPO?

It controls how far the policy may move from the reference model. Small beta permits large drift and risks capability loss; large beta keeps you close and changes less. Values around 0.1 are a common starting point.

How much preference data?

Thousands of pairs produce visible change; tens of thousands is the usual working range. Quality and coverage matter more than volume — pairs where the difference is real and clear are worth many ambiguous ones.

Can I use a model to generate preferences?

Yes, and it is now standard practice. Be aware you are transferring the judge's biases into your model, including its blind spots. Mix in human data on anything that matters.

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